I know what you’re thinking. You’ve been doing everything you can, and you’re still on the out-side looking in. The others seem to think you’re invisible. Now let’s take a moment to analyze this. Is it because you spoke too loudly or too softly? We’re you too positive, too negative, did you ride the fence? I know! You wore the wrong outfit! You were too bold, or weren’t outspoken enough! Perhaps it was the fact that you didn’t go to the party – or maybe it was because you did